| Most women long for romance, while men typically do not know what is considered romantic. Being romantic is hard work. It takes thought, time, effort and energy. It also means that you listen to your partner and pay attention to those little things they talk about that make them happy.
Small gestures such as holding her hand, picking up flowers on the way home, cooking dinner or running a bubble bath can make a woman think you are very romantic. For men, a back massage or surprise tickets to their favorite sporting event will show him that she really cares about his needs and desires. If you want to do something more spectacular, surprise your partner with a weekend getaway. Have the bags packed and everything in the car when you pick up him or her from work. Men, if you need help with the packing, ask her best friend to help, but make her swear to secrecy. Even taking your partner to a quiet setting and genuinely listening to what they are saying will be romantic for most women. Romance is not just about buying something expensive or showing up with flowers. It's about focusing on the other person and being self-sacrificing to make them happy. |